Hi everyone,
Today a good friend wanted to tell a story. He really needed to tell the story to someone that could understand and give the right advice, so I told him he could tell me.
A few weeks ago he had a girlfriend that he loved a lot. He would do anything for her, really. In time he met her parents and her friends, and this was the moment that she was acting weird. She was starting to be afraid of the commitment. After some days she broke up with him and he was a mess.
In 2 days after this happend he was starting to realize he fell in love with another girl. At this moment he tried to figure out the feeling he had for his ex girlfriend and how it was possible to get her out of his head so fast.
He was starting to think that he only wanted the idea of having a girlfriend with all the good and bad sides. The cuddling, the kissing, the hugging, the push in the back with things you normally wouldn't do, the confidence you get and what you give, to share the weight of each other problems and I can keep on going.
Now he fell in love with one of his best friends and he is worried sick if he would not make the same mistake. He wants to have the relation as a friend, but also more.
As you could see this goes very deep and at first I couldn't came up with the right anwser... I understood him well, because I've been through this. Only I can't give him the anwser... it's not in any guide book you can find or something, because every person is different and the only thing you can do is listen to the people that have gone through the same and try to put your own swing to it.
How I came to the anwser... I didn't actually. When I went to Spain for my traineeship I met my girlfriend... She is my everything and she helped me get through this feeling and I'm gratefull to her that she is always here for me, even if she is in miles away. I love her with all my heart ♥
If you have any thoughts about this, leave a message so we can see your anwsers.
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