Life through the eyes of a child

Hi everyone

Today was one of those days that all my family eat dinner at one table. Instead of the usual regulatory: one sitting in his room, 2 are sitting in the table and the other are watching television while eating.
After dinner, we talked about the things that my youngest brother (Sam, 8 year) said.

One time he was sitting next to me when I was playing a game with the computer and asked me: ,,Tom, do you have a girlfriend?" At this moment I didn't had a girlfriend so I told him that I didn't. ,,Then," he said: ,,Maybe I know a nice girlfriend for you. Do you like girls with blond hair?" Me: ,,Yes, but it doesn't matter what hair color they have." He: ,,I know some one for you. She was also at the barbecue last week." She was 12 years old and I told him this difference is a bit strange. The second question was even stranger then the last one. He asked me if I also got the feeling that my penis gets bigger when you see a beautiful girl.
You should have seen my face... I answered him with: Ehmm, ask dad xD

He went after my respond, probably feeling that the question he asked was very strange.

I asked my father if Sam also asked this question to him. My father said: Yes, and he also had a name for it.
We asked Sam how he would call this feeling and he said: It's called instinct.

Well I couldn't give him wrong, but it sounded very strange coming from a 6-year old (yes, this happened 2 years ago xD)

When this story was told, we talked about a lot more of these kind of stories. Only they are all a little bit to long to explain.

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Friends

Hi everyone,

Today a good friend wanted to tell a story. He really needed to tell the story to someone that could understand and give the right advice, so I told him he could tell me.

A few weeks ago he had a girlfriend that he loved a lot. He would do anything for her, really. In time he met her parents and her friends, and this was the moment that she was acting weird. She was starting to be afraid of the commitment. After some days she broke up with him and he was a mess.
In 2 days after this happend he was starting to realize he fell in love with another girl. At this moment he tried to figure out the feeling he had for his ex girlfriend and how it was possible to get her out of his head so fast.
He was starting to think that he only wanted the idea of having a girlfriend with all the good and bad sides. The cuddling, the kissing, the hugging, the push in the back with things you normally wouldn't do, the confidence you get and what you give, to share the weight of each other problems and I can keep on going.
Now he fell in love with one of his best friends and he is worried sick if he would not make the same mistake. He wants to have the relation as a friend, but also more.

As you could see this goes very deep and at first I couldn't came up with the right anwser... I understood him well, because I've been through this. Only I can't give him the anwser... it's not in any guide book you can find or something, because every person is different and the only thing you can do is listen to the people that have gone through the same and try to put your own swing to it.

How I came to the anwser... I didn't actually. When I went to Spain for my traineeship I met my girlfriend... She is my everything and she helped me get through this feeling and I'm gratefull to her that she is always here for me, even if she is in miles away. I love her with all my heart ♥

If you have any thoughts about this, leave a message so we can see your anwsers.

                                       the most beautiful song ever

An ordinary day

Hi everyone,

It's been a long time since I have written something :$ I'm sorry... The reason: School & inspiration.
I will try to put more posts from now on, I promise ;D

Today I needed to recover some sleep from my week. I finished my studies with an average of 8 and now I'm working as a holiday employee in my former traineeship company.

The days are long and tiring:

My ordinary work day: wake up at 5:15 am: Shower, Breakfast, Iron my clothes, and then go to my collegue :D Every morning I can go with my collegue to work :D She lives close to my village, so when it's dry (the weather) I'll go with my bike to her house. At 7:30 am we arrive at work and at 4:00 pm were finished. By the time I'm back home (with the car to my collegues house and then by bike to my own) it's 5:15 pm. Then I always know something to do till dinner and after dinner I talk with my girlfriend till 12:00 pm. And then the same routine follows.

Today I woke up at 11:00 o'clock and had cornflakes as breakfast. My parents were doing groseries and my brothers were working, so I had the house for myself :D In the afternoon Rob (my brother of 19) needed to go to his friends but it was raining, so he asked me to drive him to the appartment where they should meet.
He hasn't got his divers license yet. Then my other brother, Bas, came with the idea to go to the movies. So when we dropped Rob off at the appartment, Bas and I went to the movies.
We went to 'Ice age 4 (3D)' and it was hilarious.

Now I'm going to talk with my girl ♥ and till the next post ;)

                              For the people that loves good music

The best start I could ever made ;)

Good evening everyone,

The 1st of January I went to Spain (Catalonia) to visit my girlfriend :D She thought I would arrive the 3th because this was the original plan, but I wanted to suprise her so I chose a different date :P This time I could stay in their house (instead of hiring an appartement). We went a couple of times to Barcelona...

This was in the route to the train station 

 

 BARCELONAAAAA!!!!!!!!!

 The 6th of January in Spain they celebrate the three kings very big. This is a typical bread for this day. It tastes very good and there is some sort of game in it. Inside the bread they put some sort of toys (A) one of a bean and one of a king. The person who gets the bean, needs to pay the bread. The one who gets the king needs to wear the crown :D

 Ofcourse my little moffimoffiiiiii got the king (L)

 The 6th of January isn't only an important day of the three kings. There is something else that is more important!!!!!  And this is the birthday of Carlota!!! ♥♥♥

 In the evening we went to a restaurant to celebrate her birthday and as you can see she looked beautiful!!!!!!! (as always ♥)

 The 10th we claimed the kitchen as ours, because we wanted to make Kinder chocolate muffins and an Oreo Cake... It was a disaster xD but also very funny (A) Take notice that the body on my skirt is the same as when I take it off ehhhhhh xD jajajajaja xD (Commando style)

The 10th was also the birthday of the grandmother of Carlota and we use our brick... I mean Oreo cake as a pie for the birthday candles xD 

 

 The 11th I returned to Holland (all against my own will) The saying goodbye was horrible, but when knowing you have someone so precious to you and that you will go back to her, to hold her in your own arms again.

This makes it all a little easier, VERY LITTLE!!!

The flight back was nice because the plane was almost empty as you can see on the picture

Well that's is for this time here some comforting music to listen while you were reading this :D